Friday, October 5, 2007

Swinger Stereotypes Vs. Gay Marriage

I bet everybody that reads this has heard the stereotype that all gay and lesbian people sleep around. They have muliple partners at any given time and they are nothing more than sex addicts, or deviants. This is not accurate to say the least, but it does have some truth to it. Many do not realize though that the reason why so many gay and lesbian relationships don't last is because of the fact that in the community there is no social strings holding up their relationshps. Gay and lesbian people just can't say that they are going to build a relationship. Becaue their is no equalty in society, straight people have access and the privledge to get married and build a long term comittment, gay people do not. So this is why the majority relationships do not last, this is why there is no stability in the relationships of gay and lesbian people.
Now I ask you, those who are still skeptical to think about the use of marriage. Whn people decide to get married, they are like any other couple. They have been dating for a few months up to a few years and they decide that they want to make it a permanent relationship. When couples do get married, they make a sort of pact that they will love, honor, and be with each other until the end of their days on this fair planet. This kind of committment does not rest on foul water, but does have security nets. For instance, couples become families after marriage and start a whole new type of life. They have a ring to seal the deal and it is not just material value, it has a bigger purpose than that. When you look down the road from marriage, you see kids, moral values being leanred everyday, and a since of continuty. Don't you think this could solve alot of the problems with gay and lesbian relationships on the rocks?

1 comment:

Hackers said...

Some day I hope we all can get married no matter if we are gay, lesbian or st8.